Epiphany: New York City and Q and a Pakistani

by marla on October 26, 2011

The Freedom Tower...still only about 2/3 of its eventual height!

It was classic New York City: crossing the bridge into the city and watching the magnificent skyline against the perfect fall sky. I couldn’t have scripted the ride any better. I pointed out a few of the landmark buildings to Kylie and Jillian, even though both of them had been here before and were pretty much ready to roll their eyes in my direction at any minute. They do that once in awhile when I’m being, well, Mom.

“Over there, to the left…do you see the construction lights?”

I was startled by our cab driver jumping into the conversation. David found the lights he was pointing out.

“That is the Freedom Tower. At Ground Zero.”

It was obvious that the driver was proud of the tower. Having just watched Rising (a documentary about the tower project), I was, too. So thrilled to see it start to take its place in the iconic skyline. I pondered the tower. To me it represents the God-given drive in humans to create, and recreate, their world. It represents the refusal to let evil triumph. It represents the global community that coalesced around the project, and the people who lost their lives in that spot. It also represents the people who are giving their lives to healing. Healing the people, healing the city, healing the skyline. The Freedom Tower. What a great name.

The driver wasn’t quite finished yet.

“I’ve been wondering,” he said after revealing he was from Pakistan, “about the difference between some of your words. Can you explain to me the difference between Liberty and Freedom?”

Wow.

Not as easy as it sounds at first. David and I both took a crack at it, and the conversation filled the ride to the hotel. It turns out that our Pakistani driver had a master’s degree in American History, a degree he earned back in Pakistan as he anticipated moving to America. For just a few moments we were able to see New York City through the eyes of this man, the eyes of a man who worked hard and sacrificed everything to point out the construction lights on the floors of the Freedom Tower.

I think that’s what I love about New York City. Things aren’t always what they seem. Sometimes the epiphany — the moment of blinding insight — comes from the most unlikely sources. An epiphany can be around every corner. Probably is. If you look for it.

We were heading to a conference on using “Story” to create epiphanies. David and I would spend days learning from experts how to create compelling stories. It was amazing and overwhelming and full of useful information.

But the epiphany moment of our Qideas Epiphany Workshop was delivered by a Pakistani driver crossing the bridge into a city he couldn’t wait to show us.

{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

Kenny Jahng October 28, 2011 at 10:19 am

Marla, great post! Wished we connected at Q!

One of the great nuggets I got from Bobette was the perspective that epiphanies exist in a constant stream around us. Our job as storytellers are to find them and share them with others.

So what *is* the difference between freedom and libery? ;)

Kenny Jahng
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joann October 28, 2011 at 12:30 pm

Thanks for the story. It is totally American to embrace others and to allow their story to be part of the American fabric. Cab drivers are one of my favorite sources for viewing life through a different prism.
Thanks for sharing!

marla October 28, 2011 at 1:39 pm

We did come up with distinctions and then realized that each of us applied those to a different word! My definition of liberty was David’s definition of freedom. But one of the words implies — to me — a former captivity, whereas the other is a state of being? Not an easy answer for sure. Especially at 10:30 PM after a day of travel!

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